We are all trapped between these two fears. Being alone and separate feels terrible. Our most basic instinct as an infant is that being left alone equals death because we are completely dependent. We reach out for connection with our cries when we are in need. We form the belief that we are not ok […]
One of the challenges to being a caregiver is knowing when to switch the giving flow from caring for others to caring for yourself. Self care is essential to the health and wellbeing of the caregiver. The phrase I have used for years is “If you don’t care for yourself first, you won’t have anything […]